How to Make Yourself Squirt
Some women squirt or ejaculate naturally while masturbating or having sex with a partner. Others need more attention on their g-spot and have to learn how to do it.
Massaging the G-spot causes it to swell with fluid, which is then squirted out during orgasm. As you do this, it might feel as if you have to pee, don’t worry, just as in a male orgasm, your body prevents you from urinating. A light salty fluid comes out instead. Keep reading for more details…
- Preparing for Female Ejaculation
- Female Masturbation Techniques for Squirting
- Bring Yourself to the Edge of Squirting
- Letting Yourself Ejaculate
- Advanced G-Spot Techniques
Preparing for Female Ejaculation
To make yourself feel comfortable, lay down a thick towel to absorb the moisture or practise in the bath tub. You will need a dildo or g-spot toy design to help you massage your g-spot.
For more information on the best toys to use for your g-spot see the G-Spot Toys clip.
It might help to do a simple visualization exercise first. Imagine yourself masturbating, and then enjoying yourself pushing out your warm sweet ejaculate. See and feel yourself feeling positive and free as you do it!
Tip: Make sure you are hydrated by drinking a glass of water 1/2 hour before hand. This will help you produce more ejaculate.
Female Masturbation Techniques for Squirting
Your g-spot slowly fills with fluid as you get more and more turned on. Warm up is essential to get your g-spot stimulated and swollen, so start with some basic masturbation on your pussy and clit. Use as much lube as you like on your toys and pussy.
Using a vibrator on your clit for a few minutes is also a great to get yourself hot. And remember your orgasmic breath to deepen the sensations. For more detailed instructions see the Basic Masturbation Video series.
Bring Yourself to the Edge of Squirting
Now that you are really hot. Use your toy to massage your g-spot. It is located a few inches inside your vagina on the front wall. It feels slightly rough and bumpy.
Play around with different strokes to learn what you like best. Try slow circles and direct firm pressure. Now close your eyes and focus on the sensations.
As you get closer and closer, you will feel as if you are about to pee. This is great. Keep going and feel them build as you are ready to burst.
Letting Yourself Ejaculate
When you feel as if you can’t hold it any longer, pull your dildo our and push out with your PC muscles to ejaculate. If you don’t know how to use your PC muscles see The Basic Masturbation series or the G-spot Series for detailed exercises.
It is important just to let go and allow yourself to spray. Just watch yourself from a distance and notice the feelings (you might release some fear or shame when this happens). And just let them go.
If you don’t squirt right away. Put your dildo back in and keep going to building the sensations again. Bring yourself to squirting again and push out again with your PC muscles.
Eventually, you will feel the rush of a squirting orgasm and it will all blend together naturally. Just keep practising.
To watch a demonstration of female ejaculation, g-spot fingering and squirting see The G-Spot Video Series.
Advanced G-Spot Technique and Resources
Anal sex and masturbation can also stimulate the g-spot. Once you have taught yourself the basics of how to female ejaculate, you can try adding anal masturbation techniques or other advanced techniques. As well as our other resources on G-spot and squirting:
- The Secrets of Anal Masturbation (in Guides)
- The Secrets of Advanced Masturbation (in Guides)
- The Secrets of G-spot Masturbation (in Guides)
- The G-Spot Video Series (in Videos)